![]() ![]() Trauma is something that can damage uneducated participants in a kink session, so before you go exploring with feathers, oils or public exposure, uncover and work to heal whatever past pains have stopped you from fully giving yourself into the exploration. Many people shy away from exploring the Kinky Blueprint because of past sexual trauma and they are correct to do so. ![]() The Kinky Type tends to say, “I love me just the way I am…wholly and completely.” And if you can tap into that? You can live at levels of awesome you never thought possible. When the Kinky Blueprint is allowed freedom and safety to fully explore, they can also take their lovers to exciting new heights. Or to try things that other Blueprints wouldn’t think of trying. ![]() Or letting yourself be bossed around, even though you’ve always been told that it’s demeaning to submit to someone else’s will. This frees them (perhaps I’m speaking to you!) to seek out the heart-pumping effects of getting it on in public without getting caught. Once given that place to play and to BE…the levels of fulfillment that they can achieve are mindblowing. (By FireflySixtySeven – Own work using Inkscape, based on Maslow’s paper, A Theory of Human Allow yourself to experiment with those edgy things in spite of the fact that you’ve been told you shouldn’t.īecause the Kinky Erotic Blueprint that has integrated its shadow desires is a Blueprint that has experienced that level of self-actualization that is the pinnacle of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, the psychological five-tier model of human needs as represented here: In fact, a great way to explore those things you crave IS to explore more of the kink aspect of eroticism. So, if you are turned on by rough (but safe and consensual – always safety and consent, first!) play, then give yourself the gift of exploring your desires without the thoughts of the priest or your grandmother in your head, telling you that it’s “not normal”. It’s okay to recognize you want to do these things, but you don’t have to follow through with them…especially activities that are going to harm you in the long run (I see you, pint of ice cream in the freezer).Īcceptance says that we don’t feel guilty for wanting the things we long to have/do/be/feel.
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